Dear Ethan...

I have been trying to write letters to my husband regularly but I thought a little change of pace would be okay this week.

My best friend is expecting her first baby in August and I ran into (my new favorite) baby shower activity online today – Wishes for Baby.

So little Ethan, today I write to you…

Dear Ethan,

I hope you learn: how to forgive. It’s a lesson that some people will never learn but it is valuable and it will be important to you as you grow up.

I hope you aren’t afraid: to take chances. Sometimes the most intimidating obstacles have the biggest rewards behind them.

I hope you love: without hesitation. Love is magical and you’re already entering the world surrounded by so much of it.

I hope you get: your mom’s ability to quote movies and your dad’s love for golf. Never underestimate the power of a funny quote and a killer golf swing.

I hope you laugh: every day. You’ll probably notice that your “Aunt” Elyse laughs at her own jokes pretty regularly. Make sure you can laugh at yourself – it’s good for you.

I hope you never forget: how loved you are. You are a little bundle of magic that God has blessed your parent’s lives with and they already love you so more than they can express.

I hope you ignore: Negativity. It will never do you any good and it’s easy to let it take over…avoid negative people, comments and attitudes.

I hope you become: everything you dream of being. Do not let anyone talk you out of your hopes and dreams. Let your faith be bigger than your fear.

I hope you respect: everyone. Always use “Please” and “Thank you” and never (ever) let a door shut on a lady.

I hope you grow: up happy and healthy. I hope that every day is filled with smiles, laughter, discovery and love.

Love,

Elyse